Girl Bashing

Sorry girls but I am abandoning our gender today in terms of how we treat men. This will not apply to ALL women, but I have started making some clear observations on some girls who are just absolutely ridiculous! And I've had it! I will be directing my bashing on two types on women. Let's start with the first, "The un-deserving ones". These are the type that CHOOSE to linger on men, actually BOYS, that don't have their act together and treat women like crap! Girls, why are you even friends with these guys?! He obviously (to quote that new movie) is just not that into you! Do not continue to allow him to take advantage of you! Drop him! It is a lie for you to believe that this guy will change once you are in a relationship. It is a lie to believe that you deserve this guy. God did not design relationships to be this way. I can speak from experience that you put everything into this man, you serve him unconditionally only to be heart-broken because he does not reflect the same feelings back. He does not serve you, he uses you. He takes advantage of you. You are a convenience to him! When he is lonely, he calls you. Don't for one minute think that he is being a true, real friend or boyfriend to you. You don't need to waste your time on someone like this. There are real guys out there who do want to be your friend and serve you! They are gentlemen! I am lucky to have found some of these. And there is a man who is worthy to be your husband. He will take care of you and you of him! So stop attaching yourselves to these jerks who don't know how to treat people and then expect "pity conversations" from your friends telling you, "oh he must have just had a bad day, or he'll come around". Lies, lies, lies. You deserve so much more!

The second woman I am speaking to is the "User, non-commitment, flirt". You women make me so mad! Maybe you are sitting there wondering if that fits you...let me clarify exactly what I mean. These are the women that I think, unfortunately, a lot of guy get attracted to. Why, I have no idea. These are women who have lots of guys who are after them, but the girl does not feel the same, yet she continues to lead them on. She may have already let the guy know that there is no interest on her part, but she continues to call the guy constantly...she goes everywhere that he goes. When she talks to him, she is pretty much throwing herself on him by constantly grabbing his arm, or hugging him, or laughing a little too much at his jokes. This is confusing for guys, ladies! Don't do this! I'm not saying you can't be friends with this guy, but remember that continuing to flirt in the same way that you want to is not appropriate. And also, we all know that you are pretty so as you are talking, stop looking around the room to see who is checking you out! I hate that! I see this happen so much!! Girls will toss their hair, giggle a lot (even with girls) and the whole time their friend is telling them this in-depth story, they are checking out the scene to see if anyone is noticing her. Ugh! Stop! And I'm sorry to say that I am noticing that a lot of college girls do this. It's so unattractive! I'm sure I was like this to a certain degree maybe in high school, but I wish I had someone to tell me what I'm saying now because honestly, I must have looked like a total idiot and I was making myself seem available when I wasn't. Which brings me to another point about these girls...they talk about how being in commitments doesn't make them feel free. They can't be who they want to be in relationships, that is total BS! Since when does a relationship confine you to be who you want to be?! It's a matter of the right person coming along to be with you to support you in who you are! So stop being this total flirt to these amazing guys who actually want a commitment, but are wasting their time on you who isn't looking for anything. There are some of us who are waiting for these committed guys to find us who are ready to be in a relationship and stop all this "dating guy to guy" business. I'm sure I'm not the only girl who has or does feel this way and I'm sorry to be so brash, but enough is enough! Ok The end :)